They’re
modern day voyagers. Like those ancient Phoenician seafaring explorers these
folks are searching for that holiest of holy; the grail of a life well-lived
and a glimpse of eternal satisfaction. They’re living their lives in search of
that as-yet unknown person they want to morph into while always keeping their
possibilities open.
I
didn’t have my own ‘ah-ha’ moment until recently. But the more I thought about
it the more convinced I am that these folks have found their fountain of youth...or
are well traveled in their journey toward it. While summering away from the
Coachella Valley I miss their interest in the arts, their dedication to the
craft of writing, and a willingness to exchange ideas and storylines. Yet it is
their focus on improving themselves and honing whatever talent they might have
that I applaud the most. Embracing life with its endless possibilities is what
it’s all about.
In
the land of tailored green space and the infamous cocktail hour these folks have found
an oasis of creativity and a youthful elixir to stymie the aging process. It’s
a continuing quest to explore one’s world, one’s mind and one’s soul. None of
them are resting on their laurels and there are plenty of laurels to go around.
They’re an interesting breed of folks; trading each day for a better one
tomorrow. Always seeking, always searching, and always opening themselves up to
new experiences. In one past blog I labeled them my den of thieves. Today I
would label them modern-day Phoenician Day Traders.
Like
those merchants of old, these captains of personal commerce are willing to
trade their daily lives for the unknown. They’ve adapted that ancient 2000
year-old Chinese philosophy which espouses breaking comfortable patterns of
behavior for the sheer terror of new experiences. *
Humans
are, by their very nature, messy creatures, full of contradictions and
anxieties, petty jealousies, complicated feelings, ambitions, hopes, longings,
and fears. Our lives are composed almost entirely of the relationships we have
with those around us. So, not surprisingly, we fall into predictable patterns
of behavior.
But
when we define who we are, we are all too often labeling ourselves according to
these passive patterns, unhealthy ruts, and automatic rote reactions. The more
a person consciously engages in such moments, the more he or she trains
themselves not to always act true to themselves, in order to behave better.
By
focusing on what a person is good at, they end up inadvertently doing something
else, that is, they train themselves to cut out other things that could lead
them in all sorts of unprecedented, unpredictable directions. In short, they
are playing it safe and closing off opportunities for new experiences.
Chinese
philosophy would encourage us to pay attention to interests we have no time for
or to choose experiences precisely because they are not what or who we see
ourselves as. The whole point here is to get into the habit of expanding one’s
perspective and expanding our life experiences. In short, trading each day for
a newer experience than the last one. As you cultivate the ability to break
from yourself, you will continue to grow and change.
Writers
are, by their very nature and genetic makeup, thieves. They steal snatches of
conver-sations everywhere they go. In their minds eye, they paint a tapestry of
scenarios happening all around them and store that material in their memory
bank. They grasp fleeting emotions that they’ve have seen, felt, heard or observed.
They peruse life swirling around them with a relish and create their own life
stories about people they don’t even know. They abscond with the memories of
relatives, parents, friends, lovers, associates and all kinds of fleeting
friendships. They are chameleons and that proverbial fly on the wall.
It’s
different from the Paris crowd that gathered around Hemingway’s table for
drinks and song. It’s different from Ginsberg’s eccentric group that gathered most
San Francisco evenings for a salon laced along the ragged edges of drugs, sex
and booze. Or my own Snow White and the Seven Seekers all gathered
around a breakfast table in Brussels, exchanging cigarettes, small talk and
grand expectations for the life ahead. This is a more subtle crowd that does
most of its exploration alone or in small hunter-gatherer groups. They are
literary-bound wanderers seeking answers instead of redemption.
Paramount
in my quest for learning from these modern day Phoenician Day Traders will be
groups like the Palm Springs Writers Guild, the Senior Theater group in
Rosemount and the Desert Writers Expo. There are a ton of very talented folks
in Minnesota and California. Not just retirees from the west coast or ex-pats
from the east coast. There are also a lot of skill wordsmiths and artistic
craftsmen from all over the country who have found a safe and comfortable haven
in our community here. There are playwrights to stage a meeting and songwriters
to share a chorus with.
They’re
all this wonderful diverse eclectic crowd of artists who might be seen as a bit
strange anyplace else but are right at home here in the desert. Musicians,
song-writers, novelists, screen writers and playwrights that I want to hang out
with. Like those ancient ones, they are all seekers.
Philosopher
Carl Jung captured it best...
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you
truly are.”
I’m
still trying to figure that one out but having a wonderful time getting there.
*Many
of the comments on Chinese philosophy were taken from an article by Michael
Puett entitled: “Philosophers can teach us about the Good Life.”
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