What ever happened to those granola-crunching hippie chicks in their long flowing dresses? The ones with a flower behind each ear and a naked baby wrapped around their waist. Whatever happened to the back-to-the earth movement and all those folks embracing mother nature? I think I found them and in a place you’d hardly expect.
Back in October of 1967, that psychedelic generation, of my generation, disappeared with the ‘Death of the Hippie’ ceremony in San Francisco. By then, time and politics and media saturation had hastened the gradual demise of their tribe as a cultural icon for peace and love and living the simple life.
Now they’re back in plain sight and unabashed contentment. If you look carefully, they’re all around us and it does make perfect sense after all. They’ve been reborn in the children of those cultural pioneers of women’s rights, women’s sexual freedom, political activism, social-involvement and community-caring.
But these new hippies aren’t into paisley prints, flowery skirts and a flower in their hair. They’re back living in the city instead of a commune in the country. They’ve spearheaded the movement back to the city and found their own community of like-mind souls in the rubble of those old vestiges of their parent’s city. These women are smart, intuitive, vested in their community and still carry subtle hints of the flower children of their mother’s era.
Instead of being college drop-outs, they’ve got advanced degrees and aren’t afraid to show their gifts of intelligence and grounded observations of the world around them. I know of one young woman who got her law degree (on a full scholarship), worked at a law firm and then at the capitol. She’s now a stay-at-home mom, raising her children yet still finding time to run three miles a day and do triathlons all the while staying involved in her community and local politics. This is not a local phenomenon. It crosses both city and state boundaries. I know of a Florida transplant in another community doing much the same thing.
It’s the new woman of today who sees her children as precious uncut gems, her home as her sanctuary and the community as her extended family. She can grow vegetables in her backyard and still find great Two Buck Chuck deals at Traders Joes. She wants her kids in sports but says: “hold off on the trophies if it’s just for showing up.” She values education above all else and places expectations on her children’s teachers as she would on herself.
These new hippies are raising kids and managing households without being encumbered by the old axioms of the’ little woman at home.’ In many instances, they own the real estate themselves or have negotiated the deal alongside their husbands. They’ve come a long way, baby…but don’t ever call them baby!
They’ve traveled far beyond the homestead and have seen and done things only early female pioneers could imagine. They’re as comfortable behind a podium as they are on a glider nursing their infant.
They see experience as food for the brain and the soul. It’s much the same for their children. Summers are no longer for hanging around the playground or being glued in front the boob tube. Now there are camps for every activity imaginable and then some.
Back in my day, hippies had the Oracle in San Francisco and local mimeographed rag sheets to get the latest news of community events. Most large cities had their own version of the Oracle. It was probably the precursor to today’s ‘Reader’ rag sheets.
Now in the Twin Cities, they’ve got MN Post and the Line and other internet message boards and news sites. If they want to communicate in person from a distance, they can do Face time or Skype or use other face-to-face mobile devices.
Back in the day, there were communes to raise the kids. Now these women have ECFE, Park and Rec. programs, play dates and the old, reliable but newly energized resource on the horizon, grandparents.
Community gardens are still community gardens. But now there are direct farm-to-table supply lines of fresh produce. And of course, Whole Foods and Trader Joes, are available for organic fare. To save money, they’ve got Savers and Good-Will and the old standard, garage sales.
Many of these women handle the household finances and know more about the globe economy than a lot of the newly minted sprouts on Wall Street.
Stimulants have changed from pot to fine wines and craft beers.
They’re forging new trails in women’s rights and equality. They’ve come a long way but they’ll all tell you, there’s still a long way to go. Many seem to have taken a line from the New Frugality in which ‘living within one’s means’ is the new norm instead of the exception. And living a simpler, sustainable lifestyle is the way to true wealth in mind and soul.
The New Frugality is a new book that espouses these values and virtues.
Maybe those hippies of my generation were on to something after all.